Eleven ways to Attract what you want
for yourself or your business:

Kristin's tips on getting into flow
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Most of my clients want a life that is stress free and where ideas, people, opportunities etc. FLOW to them without much struggle. I have found that a main reason many people struggle in life or continue to spend their time in unfullfilling careers or relationships is partly due to their feeling of being "stuck" or "not knowing what else to do".. Getting "unstuck" is one of the first things I'll work on with you to build your momentum in life.. Here's how:

1. Be clear about what you want and intend to get it.

We'll work on getting crystal clear about what YOU really want to do with your time , HOW you want to live your life and WHO you want to spend time with (define ideal clients, ideal relationships, etc.)

2. ENERGIZE and Create space in your life or business for the good stuff to flow in...

This is the digging the trenches part... We'll look at your life and figure out what is "filling it". If you don't have room for anything great and wonderful to enter, it won't.. Eliminating energy drains is usually the first step to increasing your "space" for something new and energizing. Many people have an idea about how they'd like to design their life or business to be more fulfilling but simply don't have the energy to carry it off since they are already overloaded.

OK, this is huge..These are those pesky little sabotagers that stop us in our tracks. In fact, it's one of the main culprits why most of us DON'T actually leap out and live a more inspiring life. The need for security or fear of failure is one reason why many people are afraid to start a new business they've been literally dying to do for so long. Through coaching, we'll actually uncover and make a list of all of your needs and design ways to handle or eliminate them so they won't cripple your ability to move forward. For example, the security need can be handled by building a financial reserve that can carry you through a set amount of time while you build your business. You'll still have to leap out a bit, but it won't be as scary if you can see the net and have a realistic plan you are comfortable executing.

4. Build a reserve and take great care of yourself.

Ever been to a wholesale club like Sam's? You know how they have more than enough of everything and in jumbo sizes. And, have you ever been lured by that family pack of toilet paper with 100 rolls?? Am I wrong, or is there some magical feeling you get when you know you have stashes of toilet paper in your cabinets to last you a long, long time? There's a feeling of abundance, isn't there? Well, that's what you want for your life. It's a great feeling to have more than enough energy, time, money space, love, etc.. We'll figure out what "more than enough" means to you and will design ways for you to get it. Taking great care of yourself by exercising, eating well and honoring yourself is key here.. and so is having fun.. We'll focus on all of that. Abundance attracts abundance. What can you do to feel abundant today?

In business, begin to offer your clients something extra that was unexpected. In your personal life, find ways to give to those around you in ways that are giving to you, too. For example, start sending handwritten notes to new clients or people you meet who touched you in some way. Put enough good stuff out there and it will definitely come back to you..There are loads of ways to do this..

6. Tell the truth.

Another biggie.. Start being really honest with yourself. Don't kid yourself into thinking you love your job when you really don't. Honor your feelings and put a plan in action that will make your life much more rewarding. Also, be honest with other people. I'll coach you on letting key people know what you honestly want for yourself instead of pretending with them. People LOVE to help someone who is authentic and sincere. Don't try to IMPRESS, instead INSPIRE... INSPIRE lots of people to help you by being real. One great tip here is to think of an industry you've always been attracted to and contact people in that field (total strangers even) and tell them about your interest and desire for them to mentor you into getting clear about ways to enter the field.. I've done this several times and it WORKS..

7. Surround yourself with magnetic people who have their light on.

A great friend constantly reminds me that we all eventually become the combined average of the 5 people with whom we spend the most time. He has designed his life around this philosophy and has achieved more success, peace and prosperity than most ever dream about.. Think about it.. Is your nasty boss one of those 5 people?? Who do you want to become?? Having as many magnetic people around who have an abundance of energy, enthusiasm, love, time, resources, ideas, success, etc. is the idea here. Seek out those people or better yet BECOME one of those people and see them begin to appear left and right around you. Ever notice how just being in the presence of a happy, magnetic person makes you feel more alive. Be around them more and as much as you can..

8. Practice doing what YOU want and design your life around your values.

Do you feel like you are doing what you SHOULD do and not want you truly want? I'll coach you to understand what your values are and to see how they differ from your needs. Sorry to say, but most people live life around their needs and not their values. Understanding your values or what you are really all about is the first thing we'll do before designing ways to live them all of the time. Many of my clients begin living a more fulfilling life by designing and implementing a "passion project" to get practice . What outcome, in the next 90 days, would excite you to no end? Design a project around that see what develops.

9. Be PRESENT, get in the moment all of the time...

I have been told I am the QUEEN of the moment. Being present means being aware of what is happening right now..When you are aware of what's in front of you, you'll begin to see great ideas around you that could clue you in on your next move. EVERY day is loaded with opportunities to discover our passion. I believe you get at least one clear clue a day about what it is you'd most enjoy doing with your life. Just start being aware of the signs around you in the form of people you meet or circumstances at work. I can coach you on this... It's loads of fun.

10. Be immensely grateful for all that you have and will have as if you already have it.

My life has been profoundly affected by this. I will coach you to make notes every day about what and who you are grateful for that day. You'll begin to see clues and patterns about yourself. Are you most grateful for your time at an art gallery this week? Or for your time with your kids? How about designing your life so that you have more time to experience these joys.. What aspects at work are you most grateful? Gratitude is a powerful way to get clear perspective. Here's a fun do it yourself coaching game... One an index card, write down 7 things I am grateful for and HAVE NOW. Then, write down 7 things, people, talents, etc.. On the other side, write 7 things I am grateful for and WILL HAVE.. Then write down 7 things etc. you hope to have in the next 30 days.. Now, read both sides of the card every day 3 times a day for 30 days and see what happens. Call me with your findings if you want. I've seen people "attract" hottubs, new jobs, mates, clarity, etc. I love this stuff!

11. Trust

Also thought of as "the law of detachment" and it took me a few years to get this one but that's it.. Just trust , do your work, get clear about what you want, make some room for it, build a support system and let it happen.. It will.

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